Approval/Acceptance

Approval is something that everyone wants in life. It's the thing that our society craves for. We want to be accepted into a group of people so that we can have friends. But when you look at the group of people and all they do is hate on each other is that approval that you really want. I would rather have no friends then have friends who hate on each other. Another form of approval is the one of your life decisions. you want people to approve of the decisions that you make in life. Either going to college or deciding to take another path. you want people to accept what you are doing and support it.

I feel at the end of the day the only thing that matters is your acceptance of yourself. You have to approve what you are doing and be able to man up for it. You need to look in the mirror and say that you are okay with what you are doing. If you can do that then nothing else matters. People's approval or acceptance will always change. Society is something that always changes and but you dont. Someone needs to look in the mirror and accept themselves. If they can do that then people's approval or acceptance you will come.

Break Ups

I just recently went through a break up. Breaks up are probably one of those things that people hardly want to go through. There are tears, hurtful words, and a sense of not being worth anything. Break ups are those types of monster that people try to aviod at all possible. With every break up their are many reactions. You can be sad and listen to a bunch of sad songs and have a good cry. You can be bitter and angry. You want to just tell that person every bad word int he dictionary and hope they have a horrible love life. Or the more reasonable one is that you could just accept it and move on. Everyone thinks that a break up is the end of the world. It just means that sadly one door is closing. It doesn't mean that you won't find that special someone. It means that you are one step closer to finding the "one" that everyone seeks to hope for.

Everyone needs to realize that when you go into a relationship that there is a chance of you guys ending things. You can never tell the future, but you have to realize that it's possible. You need to have a good cry, a good yelling, or just accpeting it. In the end though you need to realize that that chapter of your life might be over, but in the end another chapter still needs to be written. Life is too short to hold onto what will never be there again. People need to accpet and put a smile on their face. Break ups are part of life and it's a ride of passage. Just remember that it's not the end of the world and it's not meant to be. Just smile and let your heart be open for the future it has for you.

Great Nights

A great night doesn't have to be with a group of friends or a big party. A great night is what the little things bring you. Tonight for me was a great night. Yeah there was stressful moments where i wanted to ripe my hair out (although there really isn't any) and it was a hot mess, but that didnt make it a bad night either. It made me alert and it made me actually enjoy my customers even more. I actually got to joke around with them and share a couple of laughs with them. I have to say they were the funniest group of people i have known. One guy started chanting my name as he was leaving. Then after work me and a great friend of mine went to the gas station and got food. We then walked in the warm weather to our cars. That's what made it a great night was the fact that it was the little things that made it special. Just relaxing enjoying times with a great friend and sharing amazing laughter with complete strangers. Great nights dont have to be going out partying, but more of the small things. That's what makes my life amazing is the great nights that i have all the time.