Break Ups

I just recently went through a break up. Breaks up are probably one of those things that people hardly want to go through. There are tears, hurtful words, and a sense of not being worth anything. Break ups are those types of monster that people try to aviod at all possible. With every break up their are many reactions. You can be sad and listen to a bunch of sad songs and have a good cry. You can be bitter and angry. You want to just tell that person every bad word int he dictionary and hope they have a horrible love life. Or the more reasonable one is that you could just accept it and move on. Everyone thinks that a break up is the end of the world. It just means that sadly one door is closing. It doesn't mean that you won't find that special someone. It means that you are one step closer to finding the "one" that everyone seeks to hope for.

Everyone needs to realize that when you go into a relationship that there is a chance of you guys ending things. You can never tell the future, but you have to realize that it's possible. You need to have a good cry, a good yelling, or just accpeting it. In the end though you need to realize that that chapter of your life might be over, but in the end another chapter still needs to be written. Life is too short to hold onto what will never be there again. People need to accpet and put a smile on their face. Break ups are part of life and it's a ride of passage. Just remember that it's not the end of the world and it's not meant to be. Just smile and let your heart be open for the future it has for you.